Monday, May 15, 2017

I Got Some Wisdom from Thailand



This trip was something else. To begin with, I had a situation that required me to change my entire holiday plans, and I wanted to cancel my entire trip. My grandmother and LS, in separate conversations, encouraged me to make the best of what I could still do. So, off Thailand I went.

The forever delay to get out of Korea. I was sitting on the plane for 2 hours before our departure to Bangkok. I took short naps during the waiting period. Lord knows I wanted to ask what the problem was, but that would have taken too much energy. I probably would have known if I grabbed the notice letter when we arrived, but I knew it didn't concern me, so I didn't bother. πŸ™ƒ

Let me rewind back to before I boarded the plane. As I was waiting to board the plane, I kept looking at the destination name, Bangkok- Don Meung. Clearly, I knew I was flying to Bangkok, but the airport name seemed unfamiliar. I googled searched and found out that Bangkok has two international airports, and I made my plans from the wrong airport. πŸ™„ whoops... The other major international airport had a metro station connected to it, but the one I was flying into didn't. It takes about 30-40 minutes to get downtown from the airport. Mind you, I have a 20:15 flight to Chiang Mai, Thailand, and I arrived 2 hours later than my expected arrival, 16:50. Wouldn't it have been something for me to tell you the story of how I got stranded in Bangkok? πŸ€— Lolz. As a traveler, I know better, but apparently, I was up for pushing limits. Fast-forwarding to my arrival in Bangkok.  I got on the bus that goes downtown. I felt like I could see a few things in Bangkok. Little did I know that traffic was HORRIFIC there. It took about 1 hour and 8 minutes to get where I got off. That’s what I get for trying to be cheap. While on the bus, I asked the bus attendant my best option, and she said get off and take a taxi. I did what she recommended. So, I'm slinging my suitcase around Bangkok, trying to find a major area so I can catch a taxi. By this time, I had 53 minutes until check-in closed.  A 10-minute walk later, I finally caught a taxi. (40 minutes til check-in). I'm checking my phone's clock every 2 minutes, wondering how far away we are, and mentally figuring out what my new plans would be if I get left in Bangkok. But I'm sure you already knew I made it just in time, with 7 minutes to spare! πŸ˜‰ Since I didn't get to really see Bangkok, I'll have to make a trip back.





Now to the good part(s)... Chiang Mai, Thailand.
I arrived late in the evening, and after I checked into my hostel, I found some energy to look around the city.   Anyways, to the next morning... the elephant tour🐘. Oh, what an amazing experience and life lessons I learned. I got to take care of my own elephant for a day. Meet my friend, Don Dee. You wouldn't believe the things he shared with me. Elephants are known for wisdom. ☺



During my time spent with him, he reaffirmed how we need to take things slow in life and not rush. We miss out on things and dismiss valuable time and moments. TRUST. In the beginning when I first fed him, I was distant, literally and mentally. When you don't have trust, you won’t get the full experience with someone or something nor gain value of the time. When I first climbed upon his back, he was patient with me. I was a little nervous, but he guided and assisted me up top.  His walk with confidence made me confident in him with no worries. The walk was peaceful. I took in the moments and enjoyed the scenery around. Once we made it to the pond, I gave him a good scrub, cleaning the dirt (he threw upon himselfπŸ™„) off him. This was very entertaining. We had lunch and free time after. I enjoyed the other two women that were in my group. It was refreshing to chat about life and traveling. The time with Don Dee came to an end, and I had to say good-bye to him and my trainer. That experience was exactly what I needed.



Once I arrived to my hostel, I cleaned myself and headed out into the "old city" for more adventures.  I walked for hours, wandering into different directions, finding temples all around.  I took a tuktuk (1. to say I've experienced it and 2. cause I was tired of walking) to the night market.  There I found locals selling all types of crafts.  If you're ever traveling to Chiang Mai, this is the best place to get souvenirs.  Be warned! You'll spend a good amount of money because of the prices.  I had to remove myself from the scene. 🀷  Another experience I had was the Thai massage.  It was different but much needed. 





I wasn't a fan of extremely long layovers until now. I had a 10 hour layover in Malaysia, so you know I had to make my way to the city. πŸ€— Malaysia is not what I had expected. It's a little complex, but manageable. The city is amazing and wonderfully constructed. The people were kind and generous. (My opinion is created from the two men I had full conversations with.) So I'm walking trying to find a specific metro station, and I find the "I ❤ ️Kuala Lumpur" sign.  As I'm about to take a selfie, a local asked if I would like for him to take a picture. I said sure, I'd appreciate it. After that picture, I enrolled myself into Malaysian History 101. Before he began sharing info, I found out he's a country music player in Malaysia. He has his own band,and they do music covers and perform at events. He wants to travel to Texas, Tennessee, and Kentucky. After our long conversation, he showed me the direction to the metro I needed to go to. I also found out what places I need to visit when I return. My other encounter was with the taxi driver. I was at the twin towers when it started pouring down raining. I was determined to go to the other tower and needed a lift. I asked him how much it would be, and he gave me a price. (Usually, you don't want to be in a taxi where the driver doesn't turn the meter on.) I accepted, and we headed to the tower. In the midst of waiting in all the traffic, he asked me was it urgent for me to get to the tower and was I hungry. I told him not really, that I may eat at the tower's restaurant, but I have a flight to catch soon. He informed me that the tower was closing in 15mins. I insisted that we give it a shot. Once we got to the tower, he said he'd wait for me out front just in case. He had trusted me to leave his taxi and return, because I hadn't paid him. I came back with the expected news of the tower being closed, and he ask where did I need to go now. By this time, I just needed to head back to the airport, so the train station is where I needed to go. He gave me another reasonable offer. I was not in the mood to walk nor be in the rain, so I accept. I'm scrambling through my purse, trying to collect the fee. More than mid-way through the ride, I discovered I was literally "50 Malaysian cents" from exact change. When we arrived at my destination, I told him I was short. He lowered the price by 10RM. I gave him that exactly, and he gave me 10RM back. I was sitting in his taxi confused. He told me to take it and get some food. I declined, but he insisted that I take the money. Nothing but God. Always know that there are good people everywhere in this world!







Until the next adventures.... πŸ€—


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Friday, May 5, 2017

Views From Seoul

These previous weeks have been very interesting.  The recent impeachment in South Korea of President Park, to the neighbor up north and his outlandish actions, I've been trying to process everything; but it seems to go over my head.  It's not like I don't know what's going on.  But when you live and work with people that continue their daily lives and don't allow anything to bother them, you end up doing the same. My students have had a lot to say about it.  They're children...they rarely hold back their opinions.  From the younger students joking about missiles and bombs blowing up, to my older ones expressing how awful the impeached president was and how "you know who"πŸ™„ has a double chin. I have more to say about this, but I think I'll save it for a more appropriate time.

In other positives news, I had a wonderful and eventual weekend in Seoul. I was able to see and do as much as I planned. I did about 25 miles of walking over the course of two days. Trust me, it wasn't easy.

The moment I had arrived in Korea, I had been wanting to tour Lotte World Tower. At that time, I found out that it wasn't opening for tourism until the beginning of April. I didn't make the grand opening, but I got the right to say, "I've visited Lotte World Tower within the first month of it's opening!" That counts, right? πŸ€”








Next stop was Namsan Tower. It's another landmark located in Seoul that's significant. 


 

After that, I made my way to the City Hall district; passing by Sungnyemun Gate, Seoul Plaza, and Deoksuggung Palace. *Let me insert that this wasn't an easy trek. * I got lost several times...but that's what makes adventures. πŸ™ƒπŸ˜…
Once I recharged my energy at this pizza shop, I continued towards Gwanghwamun District. This is where day 1 ended and day 2 began. Gyeongbokgun Palace is where I got to see the showing of "The Changing of the Guard."












I walked in other areas, making a few loops through areas of already been through. Though it was tiring and exhausting, I really enjoyed myself!

                    



Until next time, Seoul!




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(excuse my rushed "work."  I'll do better next time)



Monday, April 10, 2017

Stepping Outside the Box

"You are not stuck where you are unless you decide to be."

It's very strange for me now, that in the US I was always doing something every day, almost every second.  My schedule was extremely busy that majority of my time was occupied, and I didn't have to worry about occupying my time.  The fast-past life moves so quickly, to where you don't realize what's going on and the little things that are happening around you.

My fast-past life has slowed down tremendously, and I've been searching for ways to occupy the free time I have.  The little things that I didn't notice then, I notice now.  I've spent so much time on social media trying to "catch up" on people and things, I started feeling like I was missing out on things. My grandmother will be celebrating her 70th birthday next weekend, and that's an event that hurts me to not be a part of.  Trying to connect and communicate with family and friends is difficult.  I have moments where I just want to communicate to family and friends, other times, it's anyone.  Now, you're probably thinking I'm homesick, lonely, and whatever else.  A possible explanation for a late blog post?  NOPE.  Just wanted to share the reality.  My life.  Just telling you the realness.  It's not easy, and I don't want you to think for one bit that I'm extremely merry and I'm in a Utopia world.  I had to disconnect and refocus my energy elsewhere to remain positive.  Also, the month of March was chaotic.  I had the sniffles for a bit, tests and evaluations for students, the "lovely" student (my educators know them) problems, and still trying to figure things out.  I am extremely content with where God has placed me and rest assure, there are many adventures to come! ;)


Speaking of adventures... I decided to step out this box I created.  I try to do something every weekend, when the weather isn't bad...

Weekend Adventure

But this past weekend, I decided to embark on a 15.25-mile journey (unknowingly).  Was I prepared for this journey? No.  Did I have some expectations? Not really.

Destination: Chungju Dam


I'll let the pictures speak.

My friend Woody.

λŒ€λͺ½ν•­μŸ μ „μŠΉκΈ°λ…νƒ‘- The Monument of the Battle of Daemon
 


"Cherry Blossoms are blooming"
 


Snack time!
 
λ―Όλ“€λ ˆ - Restaurant
 


"In the end, we only regret the chances we didn't take."

Wednesday, March 1, 2017

Well that went by faster than I thought!

Oh, how time flies.  It's already been one month for me living in Korea.  It doesn't even feel like I've been here for 30 days.  You must live for today, because time doesn't wait for anyone!



So, what could have possibly happened within two weeks?  Well, I received my alien card.  That's official!  Classes at the academy are getting better for me.  The students are making process in my opinion.  All in all, I have a handle on things now.  I'm on cloud 9 with time management.  After talking with a friend back home, I realized that I no longer have a tourist mind-set.  I think and act knowing that I'm in my temporary, permanent location.  For example, "adulting" (a term us millennials use to describe behaviors and actions doing adult responsibilities) has gone well is all the aspects except shopping for food.  In the US, I bought junk foods here and there and certain foods that I would possibly cook.  I ate out majority of the time due to my work schedule, and parents always purchased the "essential" foods.  Anyways, I keep track of ALL purchases I make, and the biggest portions come for grocery shopping.  On my most recent grocery trip, I decided to observe prices to know for future reference.  I discovered that during my first week, I spend about $13.00 on 2 kg. of rice. (-_-)  INSANE, I know!  I found a cheaper brand and deal on 5 kg. of rice for about $9.00.  It's still insane, but it's my only option.  Worse than that, beef is highly expensive.  500 g of ground beef is about $14.00.  I'm not even going to say how much the steak cost.  So, if anyone has tried pork burgers, tell me how that turned out.  I plan on making burgers out of ground pork.  Everybody ain't able!  

On to other news.  One of my Korean co-teachers is leaving our academy and going to teach at a high school. :(  But it's something she's been working towards, so you already know I'm happy for her accomplishing goals! :)  I'm sad to see her go, but I'll catch her outside of our work time! ;)  We met up for brunch and it was lovely.  She gave us the cutest gift.   And look what she got me!  Seems like it was yesterday she taught me how to spell my name in Korean.  So, thoughtful!


Stickers with my name in Korean. λΈŒλ¦¬μ• λ‚˜
 




Discussion Γ   Cultural Conflict.
I've approached my first off-day for a national holiday, μ‚ΌμΌμ ˆ (Independence Movement Day).  1 March is the day the Koreans observe the time Koreans "openly resisted occupation by the Japanese and fought for their independence."  How do they celebrate?  Ayoung told me that people hang the national flag and think about the great people that fought for the country's independence.  This isn't Independence Day, but it's a day that led towards the actual independence.    This is the second country I've lived in during the day(s) of independence.  I spoke briefly about it in one of my blog post how leading up to the days, how the city celebrates, but on the actual observance days, the city is quiet and observes, appreciating the significance of the day.  I don't know if this is just me, but I feel that in the United States, national holidays with "significant meaning(s)" are losing significance.  Certain "significant national holidays" aren't recognized by all; for some, the original significance is vanishing, turning into another insignificant meaning; and business are using holidays to make profits, e.g. Black Friday and that whole weekend after Thanksgiving.  Will the future generations understand the true meanings for national holidays, like Martin Luther King, Jr. Day, and have respect for them?   



Weekend Adventures

On the bright side, I managed to get myself into Seoul and travel around.  I can totally "get lost" in that city.  

The story behind this photo: I decided I wanted to do some solo exploring of a different area of Seoul.  The metro got me to Songpa-Gu District, where there are a lot of touristic sites.  After wandering past Lotte World Tower and through Lotte World Mall, I found myself outside in some type of sculpture garden.  I saw a "love post box" that led me near a tourist office.  Looking at the different brochures seeing what would be of my interest, one of the information assistants wanted to assist in helping me find good brochures that would give good travelers information.  Assisting with information turned into a 45-minute conversation about traveling and life.  She asked about my purpose in Korea, told me about her experience in Canada and wanting to better her English, leading to the million-dollar question, why and how am I traveling alone? I kept it really simple for her. "Do you miss out on life experiences waiting for people to be able to do things with you, or do you enjoy journeys and life experiences on your own?"  I had to let her know that I would not have been talking with her if I waited to travel with someone and on the flip side, it's not easy traveling along.  Every solo journey I take, I'd love for someone to travel with me.  It makes the adventures better and you have someone to always share stories with.  Between the two options, I'll choose solo adventures.  After that, she insisted that I take a photo at the photo booth.  During that weekend, I did find a distant relative in the city.  SMALL WORLD! 


Lotte World Tower
 



World Peace Gate
Made it to Olympic Park!
1988 Seoul Summer Olympics
  

Until next time.

Monday, February 13, 2017

When Realistic Dreams Become A Reality

So when did it finally hit me?  It wasn’t when I got the job offer 2.5 months ago; it wasn’t when I left my four jobs to spend time with my family and friends; you would think how I was impatiently waiting for Houston to process my visa, no; it wasn’t the two weeks it took me to pack; it wasn’t when my family dropped me off at the airport sending me away; it wasn’t the 13 hour flight to Narita; it wasn’t even when I was lugging all of my luggage around the airport in Seoul; not even the time the worker in E-Mart was trying to explain to me in Korean which microwave to purchase.  Mind you, I don’t speak any Korean, yet that is!  

I've been pondering for hours as to what exactly I wanted to write as a reflection of my two weeks here in South Korea.  I know that through it all, I have matured mentally as a person and traveler.  To several, I'm too young to travel internationally alone.  As a “young” adult, I thought this has to be the perfect way, for me that is, to grow as a person, take on adult responsibilities, see the world, and live and enjoy what God has envisioned for ME! Heck, I'm young and single, without children. Isn't this the best time for me to explore the world?

*Pause, Rewind* I'm sure you're probably thinking “what,” “when,” “where,” “why,” and “how” did I end up in South Korea. *Hint: there's the answer to the where!*  So about two years ago after I graduated college, trying to figure out my life while in Beijing, China, I realized that I was about to fall in the pool of the 45% of “recent graduates that are unemployed after graduation.”  I applied to jobs, used resources and patiently waited to find something in my field.  Nothing.  For about 2 months of being unemployed, I was pressed to get anything.  So, I picked up subbing in a wonderful school district, worked at the AT&T Stadium *Home of the Dallas Cowboys ;)*, and two other places.  (It's all about managing your time wisely. That's how I did it!) About 3 months into that lifestyle, I realized that was not the life and I wanted to be back overseas.  I came across some amazing educators that steered me to teaching overseas.  I didn’t think that I would find so much enjoyment being in the classroom with the students.  I had some rough days, but God used those students to reveal an unknown passion I never knew I had.  So by the end of December 2015/beginning of January 2016, I stopped ignoring God’s signs and created a road map of where I wanted to be in a year→ January 2017.  There were many obstacles and challenges I faced that got me discouraged, but I had reminders here and there that kept me on track.  By the end of October 2016, I had everything I needed.  From certifications to legal documentation and practicum hours, I was ready to apply.  I waited til mid-November to start applying.  It was during that time frame I realized I had the power to either push my dreams away or pursue them.  Well, I’m sure you can guess how that ended.   


*Resume* So, what am I doing here exactly?  I’m teaching Korean students (elementary to middle school) English.  Do I have to speak Korean?  Do educators in the U.S. have to speak other languages to teach English to their students whose first language isn’t English?  How are the students?  Just like any student.  You have your sweet ones and you have the ones that give you a headache and need a whooping all the time.  How are the foods?  I’ve only tried three dishes: Korean BBQ, Korean style pizza, and “noodle soup.”  I cook foods that I would eat back home in the U.S.  I don’t have money to eat out like that.  How do I get around?  By foot.  Trust me, it’s not that hard getting around and living where you don’t understand what people are saying.  I only have my Irish co-teach at the moment, but trust and believe, I'll be finding my way around South Korea.  Am I afraid?  Hmmm… I’ll just share this.  I found out that I’m the “first” at my school. *The first person of color if you didn't catch that*  I love breaking stereotypes.  There has been a positive response to my presence at the school.  Yes, my students were surprised and intrigued, but after a couple days in, the curiosity died down.  I’ve been stared at several times while I’m out walking in the city, shopping at the grocery store, or even at the movie theater.  It’s nothing new for me.  I've experienced this in other countries I've visited. What’s new for me, is being hesitant to say that I’m from the United States.  I’ve come to learn that there is a fear of people from the U.S… I’ve been enjoying myself thus far, and I will continue without stress.  All I ask for is prayers. I shall continue to overcome barriers. 

Well, this blog was longer than I expected.  Don’t worry, in the future there will be more photos than words to tell my stories.  I’ve already been mapping out possible locations for adventures during my time here.  It’s been a long time coming, but I’m back to my adventures abroad! Enjoy!


My lovely family!


This is CHUNGJU!
Chicken Salad Pizza.  The salad is to make it "healthy."
Rice & Noodle Soup
Just a walk around the lake.

  

  
ALWAYS REMEMBER!